The Choices We Make

One of the central themes in The Brezas of Carifa is the power of choices and how those choices affect—and in some cases, deeply impact—our daily lives. Every day, each of us makes hundreds, if not thousands, of choices. Many of these are small, automatic decisions that barely register in our minds. They may seem insignificant and often don't have any noticeable consequences beyond our personal routines. However, other choices carry more weight. These are the decisions that can alter the course of our lives and ripple outward, influencing the lives of those around us.

Asha, the protagonist of The Brezas of Carifa, is faced with several such pivotal choices. As the narrative unfolds, Asha makes a few key decisions that have lasting effects on his future. Through his journey, he learns a valuable and universal lesson: choices come with consequences, both positive and negative. This lesson is one of the story’s most important messages. It reminds readers that while we can’t always predict the outcome of a decision, we are responsible for the choices we make and the effects they create.

For instance, a seemingly simple choice—like buying a lottery ticket—might change someone's life dramatically if it turns out to be a winner. On the other hand, a reckless decision—such as speeding—can result in consequences that are tragic and irreversible. Life is filled with a wide range of outcomes based on the decisions we make, and while some factors may be beyond our control, how we respond and what we choose to do next are always up to us.

Another message that The Brezas of Carifa delivers, especially for young readers, is the importance of thinking before speaking, choosing what we say to others. Words have power. A harsh, thoughtless comment can hurt deeply and linger far longer than intended. But kind words, even small ones, can uplift, inspire, and create positive ripples that reach far beyond the moment. Whether it’s a quiet act of kindness or a brave choice made under pressure, The Brezas of Carifa encourages readers to be mindful, intentional, and aware of the impact they have on the world around them. I read or heard somewhere, "Given the choice of being right or kind, choose kind." The comment has stayed with me, and I've practiced it many times.

Excerpt from Chapter 10

“Yes, your Tree. This is where you create the story of your life. You may not remember, but you come here every night in your dreams, as we are now, to create your life with the choices you make. It is here to remind you. The choices you make can be helpful or harmful. The bright, colorful, Happy Ornaments hold the choices you have made that are beneficial to yourself and others. The dull, gray, Not-So-Happy Ornaments hold the choices you have made that have hurt yourself or hurt others.”

Raimi held her wing over her beak and looked at Asha as if to ask him not to say anything. Asha pursed his lips.

"Before you say anything,” she said, “I want you to know, we all have our own Trees with a blend of Happy Ornaments and Not-So-Happy Ornaments hanging from the branches. No one has only Happy Ornaments and no one has only Not-So-Happy Ornaments.”